Mercy Over Judgment
I.
When
your heart beats like God’s you won’t want judge people, you won’t want to see
people judged, you’ll want them to repent and get mercy-2 Peter 3:9
A. Luke 12:57-13:9-Repentance
is the key to not being judged
1.
57-You have
to judge and personally decide what is right – Not WHO is right, WHAT is
right and NOT for someone else but for YOURSELF
a. You have to determine based on what you believe the
Word says and the conviction of your own heart what is right and what is wrong,
but that doesn’t mean you look down on people and pronounce them guilty and
speak evil of them
2.
58,59-The
way to not be judged is to judge yourself
a. If you
have done something wrong against somebody and they are on the way to take you
before the judge, judge yourself and repent before them and get it settled so
that it doesn’t get before the judge
b. When they are in the
process of pressing charges against you, you have a short window to get this
fixed and if you are wise you will go to them and you will repent and you will
judge yourself and prevent them from going to the judge then you are spared
c. When you see tragedy
happen you are wrong if you say it happened to them because they were bad
people and the people who got spared are better people – That’s wrong
d. The same thing can happen
to you and something like that will happen if you don’t humble yourself, judge
yourself, and repent
3.
The
key to not experiencing this devastation is repenting or judging yourself and
it’s the key to being safe
a. If I’m kept and protected
because of how good I’m praying and believing then it’s because of me and
that’s not true
b. I’ve missed and made
mistakes and if that’s the case sin deserving of judgment so why did I get
judged? Because I repented and the more I’m seeing this the better repenter I’m becoming because I realize it’s the only way
to keep the door closed to the devil
4.
6-8-This
is a perfect illustration of what we can be for people if we will stop judging
them
a. We
don’t want to judge people, we want them to repent so they can get mercy
B. If you
want to see peopled judged and say things like they’ll get what’s coming to
them and love judgment and love talking about people paying for what they have
done you are off, you are not like the Father and your heart is not like his
heart
1.
God
gets no pleasure in judgment, but he delights in mercy (Micah 7:18)
a. MSG-For mercy is your specialty. That’s what you love
the most; GW-You will not be angry forever, because you would rather show
mercy; TLB-You cannot stay angry with your people, for you love to be merciful;
GNV-Mercy pleases Him
b. Faith
pleases God and the prosperity of his people pleases God and in judgment there
is no faith or prosperity-Heb11:6,Ps35:27
2.
Judgment
is not God’s first move, it’s His last resort and it comes after many
opportunities being given to repent and change and it only comes when people get
to the place that they absolutely will not repent
a. God
will give people many chances, but in the end there is no remedy for an
unrepentant heart-Proverbs 29:1
b. 2 Peter
3:9-The reason God is so patient with us and gives time is b/c he doesn’t want
us to perish, he wants us to repent
1)
Willing-Desire,
Purpose; His desire and purpose is not that people get judged and perish, but
repent and get mercy
3.
James
2:12-14 (ESV)-In our lives mercy triumphs over judgment because we were shown
mercy
a. JBP-Anyway,
you should speak and act as men who will be judged by the law of freedom. The
man who makes no allowances for others will find none made for him. It is still
true that “mercy smiles in the face of judgment.”
b. Act like someone who got mercy and give mercy and have
mercy triumph over judgment
4.
Say it:
My heart beats like God’s and I don’t want to see people judged, I want them to
repent and get mercy
II.
If want
people to repent and get mercy then being kind and merciful to them is what you
must do
A. Luke
6:36-37-BE merciful, DON’T judge
1.
When
God sees somebody being unkind and wicked and bad in nature he doesn’t turn
hard, he stays mild, he stays kind and he doesn’t let their actions turn him
sharp and hard because he knows it’s his kindness that will lead them to
repentance
a. When people get way off sometimes their sin we allow to
make us sharp and hard and harsh, but it makes God release kindness
b. The uglier people get and the more carnal they act that
should just be like a trigger that causes you to release mercy over them
2.
This
BE MERCIFUL is not encouragement it’s empowerment and you and I have the
ability based on these words and have been empowered through these words to be
merciful just like our father is merciful; We have the ability on the inside of
us to look at people who have are filthy and dirty and have missed and made
mistakes and done despicable things over and over again and not judge those
people but be tender with them and compassionate to them and cry out mercy for
them
a. God’s
words have power and these words BE MERCIFUL are power words, empowering words-Matthew
14:29
b. The
tendency of the unrenewed mind is to think, “I can’t be merciful to that
person. What they did is too bad.”
c. You can be merciful if you will; The problem is your
flesh doesn’t like to be merciful and likes to judge and feel superior
3.
When
you’re having all kinds of judgmental thoughts about people and feelings of
anger are rising up with in you and people have just acted ignorantly and done
dumb stuff you have the ability in the midst of all that to NOT JUDGE because
Jesus empowered you when he said JUDGE NOT
4.
Say it:
I have been empowered by God to BE merciful and to NOT judge and therefore I AM
merciful and I DO NOT
judg
B. Romans
2:4-Judging people doesn’t lead them to repentance, but the goodness of God
will
1.
Goodness-Mild,
pleasant, kind, as opposed to harsh, hard, sharp
a. It’s not getting hot and being rough and hard with
people that’s going to cause them to repent, but rather it’s goodness and
kindness and gentleness and mercy that leads people to repentance
2.
They
looked down upon the goodness and forbearance and longsuffering of God and
thought that wouldn’t lead people to repentance, but judging would, not knowing that it’s the kindness
of the Lord that leads people to repentance
a. Despise-Think little or nothing of; Goodness-Kindness, Gentleness; Forbearance-Toleration; Longsuffering-Patience, Forbearance
b. Often times when people are on a dark downward spiral
of sin and carnality you will be tempted to think that that love of God won’t
turn them but you’re coming down on them will and harsh judging will
c. They are judging these people who are way off and being
hard and harsh, NOT KNOWING that doesn’t lead people to repent
3.
Here’s
something you need to know that will help you stop judging; It’s the goodness
of God that leads people to repentance
a. You
want people to repent because that’s how they get mercy, but people don’t
repent because you judge them, the repent because you are kind and merciful and
gracious to them
C. This
coming down hard on people and judging and hypocrisy actually will push people
further away from God and destroy your witness
1.
Romans
2:17-23-They’re judging and harshness and hypocrisy is turning people away from
God and destroying their witness; their coming down hard on others and judging
others and giving people no mercy and lack of kindness is turning people away
a. TLB-17-You Jews think all is well between
yourselves and God because he gave his laws to you; you brag that you are his special friends. 18 Yes, you know what he wants; you know right from
wrong and favor the right because you have been taught his laws from earliest
youth. 19 You are so sure of the way to God that you could
point it out to a blind man. You think of yourselves as beacon lights,
directing men who are lost in darkness to God. 20 You think that you can guide the simple and teach
even children the affairs of God, for you really know his laws, which are full
of all knowledge and truth. 21 Yes, you teach others—then why don’t you
teach yourselves? You tell others not to steal—do you steal? 22 You say it is wrong to commit adultery—do you do it? You say “Don’t pray to idols” and then
make money your god instead.[d]23 You are so proud of knowing God’s laws, but
you dishonor him by breaking them. 24 No wonder the Scriptures say that the
world speaks evil of God because of you.
b. MSG-“It’s because of you Jews that the
outsiders are down on God,” shows it’s an old problem that isn’t going to go
away.
2.
Judging
and hypocrisy destroys your witness, but when you’re merciful and honest and
don’t pretend like you don’t have any faults, it’s that kindness that will
enhance your witness and turn people to the Lord
a. Could our honesty and kindness and mercy draw people to
God, to repent? Could our mercy enhance our witness? Could your soft eyes and
loving heart turn somebody?
3.
Psalm
18:35, 1 Peter 3:4-This is what makes you great in the eyes of God; When his
gentleness beings to flow through you
4.
Say it:
It’s not my judging of people that will turn them to God, it’s the mercy of God
that changes people and my witness is strong because I am strong in mercy