Changing Your Way Of Thinking
Foundation Statement: The way you think and
what you have knowledge of are two different things - James 1:14-16
I.
What you have knowledge
of and the way you think are two different things (Rom 7:14-23)
A. He has knowledge of
what’s right in his mind but he is still carnal in his way of thinking
1.
14-He
knows what’s right, but says he’s carnal
a. Knowledge is not the
meter of carnality
1)
You
can know a lot about right and wrong and still be very carnal; How is
that? B/C that knowledge that u
have hasn’t changed ur way of thinking
2)
We’ve
mistaken what we know with how we think
b. He’s carnal in what he’s
doing because he’s carnal in his way of thinking even though he has knowledge
of what’s right
1)
You’re
only a spiritual person of character when that knowledge that you have has
changed the way you think
2)
He
knows what’s right but his way of thinking hasn’t changed
2.
17,20,21-He
knows what’s right but sin is still dwelling/remaining in his way of thinking
a. Sin’s not remaining in
his spirit he’s born again
b. Sin isn’t remaining in
his body; the body is an instrument through which we can sin
B. When you do something on
a consistent basis without having to think to do it that reveals your way of
thinking
1.
Your
way of thinking is revealed through what you say and do without having to think
to say it, or to do it
a. What you do habitually or
automatically without having to think to do it reveals your way of thinking
2.
The only way to prove your
way of thinking has changed is to
prove it with your consistent doing
a. When it becomes habit to
you, your way of thinking has changed
C. When we’re talking about
changing your way of thinking we’re talking about changing your subconscious
mind (Eph 4:22-24)
1.
Your
subconscious mind is the auto-pilot of your life
a. It conducts 85% of your
daily decisions without you knowing it
b. It’s existing or operating in the mind beneath conscious
awareness
c. It’s what you do without having to make yourself do it (Mt 12:34)
1)
Heart – That organ the seat of physical life, denotes the
centre of all physical and spiritual life; the soul or mind, as it is the
fountain and seat of the thoughts, passions, desires, appetites, affections,
purposes, endeavors; of the will and character; of the soul so far as it is
affected and stirred in a bad way or good, or of the soul as the seat of the
sensibilities, affections, emotions, desires, appetites, passions
2.
Knowledge
works in the brain, your way of thinking works in your mind
a. Your brain is part of
your physical body that goes to the grave; Your mind/soul is spiritual and it
goes with you (Luke 16:20-26)
b. Don’t be renewed in what
you know or the knowledge you have, be renewed in the way you think
D. You don’t do what you
know, you do in line with the way you think
1.
He
knew what to do, but his way of thinking had not changed. Along with that he’s not directing his
mind to the things of the spirit (Rom 8:5)
a. You don’t do what you
know, you
do what you direct your mind to
b. EX: You can know talking
negatively about others is wrong, but if your way of thinking hasn’t changed
you’ll still do it
2.
To
be people who live a lifestyle of character it’s going to take more than just
knowledge in our heads, we have to change our way of thinking
II. The Law of conceiving Sin (James 1:14-16)
A. The law of conceiving sin
– This is the process (the laws and principles) that gives birth to sin
in your life and it takes place every time you miss it
1.
Many
people do wrong, but didn’t see this process take place; they did it so quickly
that they didn’t even have to think to do it; They didn’t see this process take
place b/c their way of thinking was in line with what you did
a. Drawn away
1)
To
be drawn in a way of doing you first of all have to drawn in a way thinking
that produces the doing
a) Satan draws you in a way
of thinking that is away from God and his word and then you’ll do it
2)
You
don’t have to be drawn a way, if you’re already in that way of thinking; that’s
already your way. (That’s not my way of thinking. It is because you did it without having
to think to do it.)
a) You’re already over here
in the way u think & consequently in the way u act
b) Adam and Eve had to be
drawn away because eating that tree wasn’t their way of thinking. Their way of thinking were that tree was
concerned was eat it and die (Genesis 2).
c) You don’t have to lure a
fish you already got
3)
If
u didn’t recognize being drawn away u must have been over there already
b. Lust-Craving, Desire,
Longing, Turn your mind upon a thing
1)
U
didn’t have 2 turn ur mind upon it, it’s already on it through ur way of
thinking
2)
If
you didn’t recognize turning ur mind upon it, ur mind must already have been on
it
c. Tempt/Entice
1)
The
devil doesn’t have to tempt or entice you to do something wrong that you’re
already going to do on your own
2)
I
don’t have 2 tempt a sinner to sin; he’ll do it w/o me b/c of his way of
thinking
2.
This
is the law of sin and death; reverse it and it’s the law of the spirit of life
a. Every man desires to obey
when he allows himself to be lured to the Word by turning his mind upon the
word. The longer his mind is on the
word the greater his desire gets to do what it says. When that thought of the Word conceives
it brings forth obedience and when obedience is finished it brings forth
life.
3.
When
you engage the process of changing your way of thinking this process of sin
begins to slow down b/c there is a reversal taking place from automatic wrong
to automatic right
B. A working illustration: A
person who doesn’t love others with their words
1.
This
is a person is a believer and a regular church attendee. At the same time they are critical of
others, judgmental of others, and find fault with others on a daily basis, but
never notices themselves doing it.
They don’t have to think to do it, that’s just what they do, it’s their habit.
If you asked them is it right to be critical of
others, judgmental of others, and find fault with others they would
emphatically say it’s wrong because they know the Bible says it’s wrong. At the time their
asked their operating out of their conscious awareness and not their
subconscious.
2.
They
come to church and the minister teaches on loving people with the words of your
mouth. When they hear the message
it (1) confronts their way of thinking and doing because they realize they’re
missing it in this area.
3.
They
(2) accept the Word of God as right, (3) acknowledge their need to change, and (4)
make a decision to do so.
Immediately this process begins to slow down.
4.
They
go to work on Monday after hearing the message and first thing in morning their
fellow worker wants to start in on the boss like they always do. This person opens their mouth without
even thinking and starts talking negatively about their boss. On the way home from work that day they
Holy Spirit reminds them and convicts them of what happened and they (5)
repent. Before they would have
never known they did wrong. The
process is slowing down.
5.
(6)
They spend that night and the next morning meditating the Word of God. They come to work the next day and that
fellow worker is there again and they have a thought to say unlovely, but they
know they shouldn’t say it so they don’t at first. However, they turn their mind upon it
and the more they think about it the angrier they get and they get up and go
say it to that co-worker. The Holy
Spirit convicts them and they repent on the spot. The process is slowing down.
6.
They
spend that night and the next morning meditating the Word and the same
situation happens the next morning.
This time when the thought to say something negative comes, (7) they
direct their thoughts to the Word of God with the words of their mouth and they
don’t say it. The temptation to say
it rises up within them 15 more times that day, but every time it does they
direct their thoughts to the Word.
7.
They
continue in this consistently and constantly for months. When they miss it they repent and they
continually are directing their thoughts to the Word of God.
8.
One
morning their co-worker comes to start in on the boss and when they are done
talking this believer opens their mouth without having to think to do it and
speaks words of love over their boss.
They said something lovely out their mouth without having to think to
say it and their way of thinking has changed.
9.
There’s
been a total reversal from automatic wrong to automatic right.
a. Through that process it
got more taxing to get you to do wrong
III. The process of changing your way of thinking:
A. (1) The Word Confronts
your way of thinking and doing; The Uncompromised Word will confront the carnal
way of thinking
1.
A
carnal mind is one that things in opposition to the Word of God (Romans 7:14,
8:7)
a. Your thoughts are not
God’s thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9)
1)
God’s
word is His thoughts; they aren’t in line with a carnality
b. God doesn’t speak from
the standpoint of flesh, he speaks from the standpoint of spirit & your
carnal mind won’t accept it b/c it thinks from the standpoint of flesh
2.
You’re
going to hear things from the word that’s in opposition to your carnal way of
thinking; when that happens don’t be surprised because unless you already think
like God in everyway, you’re going to hear things from the Word that aren’t in
line with the way you think.
a. The carnal mind will
fight what it is spiritual and what’s the Word especially if it hasn’t heard
before
B. (2) Accept the Word as
right whether you like it or understand it (Ps 33:4)
1.
When
the Word of God confronts your way of thinking either:
a. You accept God’s word as
right
b. You get offended or make
excuse and turn a deaf ear
1)
Jesus
preached something that confronted their carnality; they got offended and
turned a deaf ear and left (Jn 6:53-67)
2)
When
you make and excuse you’re trying to make wrong okay
2.
If
you’re going to live a character life it begins with what you do at this stage
when the Word confronts your way of thinking
a. If you get offended or
make excuse and turn a deaf ear to the right words you have no ability to think
right & you won’t do right & your destiny will be effected
3.
Stiff-necked,
hard-hearted, non-teachable, prideful, and rebellious people don’t accept the
Word as right
C. (3) Acknowledge your need
to change in what you’re doing and in your way of thinking; the beginning of
repentance (Prov 28:13)
1.
It’s
at this place that you call wrong, wrong and don’t make excuses
a. Confess – You’re
acknowledging your fault and owning up to it
b. You can’t just call the
act wrong, you must acknowledge you’ve been wrong in doing it and in the way
you think
c. Don’t accept in your life
what is unacceptable to God
2.
This
is the beginning of repentance; I’m turning my back on that way of doing &
thinking
a. Forsake-You’re turning
your back on that thing saying I never knew you
1)
To
forsake the way you have to forsake the thoughts (Isaiah 55:7)
2)
Repent-To
change you mind; you’re first of all turning your mind away saying I never knew
you
3.
If
you hide your wrong you won’t be able to push forward and break out of it
D. (4) You make a decisions
of quality; ones from which there is no turning back (This is where the process
of beings to slow down)
1.
You
make a decision of quality that you’ll never quit (Galatians 6:9)
2.
You
make a decision of quality to put the thing away that don’t reflect the
character of Jesus
a. James 1:21-Put away-To
lay something down and to push it far away and beyond reach
b. 1 Corinthians 13:11-Put
away-To cease, put an end to, do away with, to be severed from, separated
from
c. It might not look or feel
like you’ve put it away, but by faith it’s away
3.
You
have to make a decision of quality to cast down every thought that doesn’t line
up with the Word (2 Corinthians 10:5)
a. If you don’t make a
decision to do it you won’t
E. (5) Live a lifestyle of
confession, forgiveness, and cleansing and absolutely refuse condemnation (1
John 1:9, Heb 8:12, Micah 7:8)
1.
A
lifestyle of confession, forgiveness, cleansing, is one in which you’re
constantly confessing your sin and receiving your forgiveness and cleansing
a. Confess it now; you have
to call wrong, wrong to renew your mind
2.
1
John 1:9, 2:1
a. If we – This is
conditional based on what we do
b. Confess our sins –
Acknowledge, concede, not deny, admit what you’ve done
c. Faithful – Jesus
will forgive you and cleanse you every time you come to him
d. Just – He’s
justified in doing so; he has a right to do it; he’s equipped and authorized by
God to do it
e. Forgive – Canceling
a debt, to release, to forfeit the right to hold captive because of a wrong,
disregard and not discuss now
f. Cleanse – Make
clean from wickedness, stains, and dirty
g. God has promised to
remember our sins no more (Hebrews 8:12)
3.
For
confession, forgiveness, and cleansing to be complete condemnation must not be
present
a. Condemnation keeps you
where you are; It holds you in the past and keeps you connected to that wrong so
that you can’t grow towards your future and do right (Philippians 3:13-14, 2
Corinthians 7:2)
1)
Condemnation
is one of the greatest enemies to character growth
b. Sin separates you from
God, condemnation keeps you separated
1)
You
can’t grow and be separated from the vine (John 15:4)
c. Condemnation is the
pathway that will lead you to continued sin
1)
You’re
seeing yourself as a sinner and that will lead to more sin
d. Condemnation is a work of
the flesh based in fear (Romans 8:1)
1)
Your
life is being governed by your feelings of guilt
2)
When
you confessed the sin is when he forgave you and cleansed you; not when you
felt forgiven and cleansed
3)
This
has nothing to do with how you feel; you might feel guilty, condemned, and bad,
but the word says you’re cleansed, your forgiven, God will remember your sins
no more, and you’re the righteousness of God; you have a choice to either
believe the word or your feelings
e. Refuse condemnation
(Micah 7:8 – Rejoice not against me o mine enemy: when I fall I shall
arise)
F. (6) Engage the process of
changing ur way of thinking by meditating the Word-Josh 1:8
1.
Meditate
it so that you can do it; if you don’t meditate you won’t do it
2.
Joshua
is meditating the Word before he’s in the middle of this thing
a. When I’m in the middle of
the battle I’m not going to have time to think about my response
b. I want what I do in
training to be my automatic response in the battle
3.
You
won’t win the battle without the proper training (1 Timothy 4:7)
a. You exercise yourself
unto godliness by meditating the Word and changing your way of thinking
b. There’s an enemy out
there that who you to miss it
c. Don’t wait until the
battle shows up to start training
d. You’re radical in your
training because you want change in this area more than you want your next
breath
4.
How
to make character you what you do habitually (Hebrews 5:12-14)
a. They need milk because
they’re babies and because they are babies they are carnal (1 Peter 2:2, 1
Corinthians 3:1)
1)
If
they’re carnal in their doing, they are carnal in their way of thinking
b. They had been taught once
what’s right and therefore have knowledge of what’s right, yet they’re still
carnal
1)
They
got knowledge, but they never took that knowledge and changed their way of
thinking
c. They are babies still
because they didn’t take that knowledge they gained and train their minds
through vigorous exercise to think like that
1)
Dull
of hearing – Not willing to be diligent to hear and when you do hear
unwilling to train vigorously with what you heard
d. You can train your mental
faculties (Perceiver, Understander, Judger) separate God and His way from the
wrong way
1)
You
see the situation God’s way, you understand the situation God’s way, you judge
the situation God’s way
a) You can train your mind
to do that automatically
2)
EX:
The power of words and now I hear people I’m not trying to hear, but I hear it
because my way of thinking has changed
3)
The
more developed u are in the way u think, the more you’ll walk in character
G. (7) Direct your thoughts
with the words of your mouth to the Word of God ALL THE TIME (Romans 8:5, 2
Corinthians 10:4-5)