Why Are You Talking? - Part 1
Foundation Statement: In the Word of God there
are reasons for talking and if you’re not talking for the right reasons, then
you’re going be saying the wrong things
I. When God speaks His purpose
is to send words to accomplish something
A.
Everything God does, there is purpose behind
it; We should be like him
1.
If the purpose for a thing is unknown, abuse
of the thing will be inevitable
2.
People abuse talking, because they don’t know
the purpose for it
B.
Is 55:11-God speaks 2 send His Word 2
accomplish something; He never JUST talks
1.
God sends words with purpose to accomplish
something profitable/ to increase good
a.
He’s not speaking to express something or
comment on something; if it is expressing something or commenting on something
it too is accomplishing something profitable
2.
Every time God speaks words they have a
common theme; they always lead to profit, success, and good
3.
Our words do something-Every word you speak
is helping you or hurting you, healing you or making you sick, bring victory or
defeat, causing prosperity to come to us or keeping it away from us
a.
Get rid of this phrase, “I’m just saying.”
b.
Just implies that what I’m saying has no
value or impact; It’s just words
II. The purpose for words-Why we
talk
A.
Matthew 12:36-We speak to yield profit, to
increase good
1.
Your words should be profitable to you and
others; they should lead to the increase of good, ONLY, in your life and in the
lives of others
2.
I speak so that good will be increased in my
life and in your life
B.
James 3:10-We speak to bless
1.
Blessing is speaking that causes increase,
multiplication & to become greater
2.
Blessing is to speak good things over people
that impart power into their lives for those things to come to pass
C.
Ephesians 4:29-We speak to build up and
minister grace
1.
No worthless speech should come out your
mouth; only useful, profitable words
2.
To the use-your words are to be used and useful
3.
Your words are to build people up and promote
prosperity in their lives
4.
Your words should minister grace
a.
When you get done talking the hearers should
be built up, full of joy, pleasure, and delight; strengthened, increased in
faith, and stirred to go exercise the Word in their lives
b.
Watch what you go around telling people; your words shouldn’t burden people; What is telling them that going to do?
5.
The Holy Spirit is one of those hearers
D.
2 Corinthians 4:13-We speak to reveal and
release faith in God and in his Word
1.
Did what you say release faith or unbelief?
2.
What does what you just said say about what
you believe?
E.
James 3:3-4-We speak to set the course and
direction of our lives
1.
We use our words to get us where we want to
go, like the driver of a car uses the steering to get him where he wants to go
2.
Rom 4:17-U call things that be not like they
be b/c u don’t like the way they be
III. The primary use of words is
not to express & communicate; the primary use for words is to profit,
bless, edify, minister grace, release faith, set direction of life
A.
All expressing & communicating must be
done inside those boundaries; if you can’t express and communicate inside those
boundaries, then don’t
1.
Learn to communicate inside the boundaries of
faith
B.
Talking primarily to express and communicate
is counterproductive to victory showing up in your life
1.
When u hear something bad the first thing
that you should do is zip it, until you find out what to say that’s going to
set the direction of this thing right
C.
Psalm 12:4-People want Jesus to be the Lord,
but their lips to be their own
IV. Wrong reasons for
talking-Why we shouldn’t talk
A.
People talk to express themselves when they
should talk to express Him-John 8:26
1.
You don’t use your words to express your feelings, your thoughts, or your
opinions; you use your words to express what God said
2.
Hebrews 3:1,4:14-16-Hold fast to our
confession of faith, not your feelings
a.
Apostle & High Priest-He’s the sent one
who his is authorized and equipped w/ the ability to see to it that what I say
comes to pass; He’s the voice of my confession in Heaven
b.
He does not say come to the throne of grace
holding fast to your feelings
c.
He knows how you feel, he’s been there; but what
you do you believe?
d.
If you want to find grace to help, hold fast
to your confession of faith
1)
People in search of sympathy will talk the
problem; people in search of victory will talk the Word
3.
People want to talk to express how they feel,
but if they way feel is not in line with the Word of God, then it doesn’t need
to be expressed
a.
Dan 3, Num 13, 1 Sam 17-How did they feel?-We can only speculate b/c they didn’t tell us how they
felt, they told us what they believe
4.
Venting-That’s yielding to something wrong-You’re
flesh might feel temporary relief, but spiritually you’re in worse shape than
you were before
B.
People are talking to comment on and talk
about the problem
1.
John 11:3-4-Jesus heard something bad and he
didn’t express how he felt or comment on the problem; he immediately used his
words to profit
a.
Jesus loved him and yet wasn’t interested in the
details of the sickness
b.
He didn’t say, “Oh that’s terrible. What is
he sick with? How bad is it?”
2.
1 Sam 17:23-As people comment on the problem
they exalt it & it destroys faith
a.
26-He refers to the problem as a no
covenant-having Philistine
b.
26-He talked down to the problem (Who is
this?)
c.
37-This is nothing for God
3.
Luke 1:30-56
a.
42-45-If Mary would’ve been around a person
saying the wrong things it would destroy her faith-Elisabeth said the right
things at the right time
1)
43-Elisabeth calls things that be not as
though they were
2)
45-What the Lord told you is going to come to
pass
3)
These words are building Mary up, ministering
grace, profiting her
b.
The Lord had the one not going through it
talk first
1)
I believe what Mary said was effected by what
Elisabeth said
2)
Knowing Satan he was probably right there the
moment God spoke to Mary saying you didn’t hear from God trying to rob her of
certainty
c.
46-Notice Mary doesn’t say: “I just don’t
know, I mean to have a baby without a man I’ve never heard anything like that
before. How could that possibly
happen? That would be impossible
wouldn’t it? I don’t know maybe I missed God.”
1)
She doesn’t go on and on about how big the
problem his, she begins to talk about the goodness and greatness of God
d.
In all this, having a baby without a man is
never brought up
4.
Daniel 3:16-They didn’t comment on how hot
the fire looked
C.
People are talking to communicate the evil
report
1.
Communicating the evil report-Some bad
circumstance, situation, or thing is happening & people use words to tell
others that this bad thing is happening
a.
The big thing in this is why & how
are you doing it-Are you staying inside the boundaries of faith?
1)
If you’re communicating the evil report in
unbelief, in fear, in search of sympathy and wanting people to feel sorry for
you-WRONG
2)
If when communicating the evil report you go
on and on exalting it and magnifying it-WRONG
3)
Don’t just go around telling everybody
everything all the time
b.
What good could come out of communicating the
evil report?
1)
People need to know what’s going on so they
can pray (Mt 18:19)
a)
They’re on a need 2 know basis & they
only need 2 know what 2 agree on; u can tell people what’s going on or what 2
agree on
2)
They need to know how serious it is-Why? So
they’ll pray hard (Js 5:16)
c.
What does knowing about your problem do for
them or you?
1)
The way many people talk about the problem it
drains faith/life
2)
People talk to communicate the evil report &
it’s helping no one
2.
Numbers 13-Why are they talking? Why are they
saying this?
a.
28-Is this profiting, blessing, building up,
ministering grace, releasing faith in God, or setting a positive direction for
their lives?
b.
32-Some of the report they gave of the land
is true, but it’s evil
1)
The people were stronger than them, the
cities were walled, there were giants there, but God called what they said evil
c.
Caleb saw the same problem, but didn’t communicate
it
1)
People of faith rarely reference the problem
and even if they do they are very cautious about how they talk about the
problem
d.
10-The people got mad because faith
unintentionally shows up unbelief